Just a little bit. That's good to hear, man. Warning: Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander viewers are advised that Mike Sarraille: It's like public speaking. [12], On June 19, 2008, Rzeznik was inducted into the Songwriters Hall of Fame and was awarded the Hal David Starlight Award. I flunked out. ", "The Next Great American Band Official Website", "Songwriters Hall of Fame 2008 Award and Induction Ceremony Induction Ceremonies", "Watch Goo Goo Dolls Singer Live from Westfield in Benefit to Fight Hunger", "Rank Your Records: John Rzeznik Plays Favorites with the Goo Goo Dolls Records", "Catching up with Johnny Rzeznik of the Goo Goo Dolls", "Goo Goo Dolls' Johnny Rzeznik Is Engaged", "John Rzeznik and Wife Welcome Daughter Liliana Carella", "John Rzeznik unveiled: Goo Goo Dolls frontman finds peace in sobriety, love in fatherhood", https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?title=John_Rzeznik&oldid=1138331259, This page was last edited on 9 February 2023, at 02:50. And try to still find that commonality with people. But once again, that guy was an everyday warrior because I don't know how you get up every morning at four 30 in the morning, go to work, carry mail, work at the post office, and then drink a quarter whiskey and then get up and do it every day for 20 something years. , you went to college for a, a short stint. Um, it was really a freaky situation. It's someone who was, you know, sexually or emotionally abused as as a child. Yeah. Does the draw of alcohol. [16] Rzeznik attributes his gift for melody to listening to bands such as Kiss, Cheap Trick, The Cure and Rush in the early 1980s. Again. I think my dad did though. And I think that was, it taught me a really important lesson in retrospect, you know? I'm gonna teach you how to cook. No risk, no reward. So what do they do the next week? Yeah. John Rzeznik: SUBSCRIBE for more videos: http://bit.ly/2qswmZU Want to know what's going on with Howard Stern. I don't know what, Why do you think that generation was wired that way? You know, Samma Hagar said something very similar to, to, to us in his interview. Dec 11, 2019. I mean, we were, we were so poor. I'm full in on the music. That was, that was probably the hardest decision I had ever had to make. And, um, I don't know, it was like, it was shock really. I, I, I think but he, you, you carry on. They mean nothing. That took a lot of moral courage to do that. You want to have enough strength so that nobody wants to screw with us, You know? It made me want to drink more. Cause I know you probably just, that's, I mean, that's impact at its finest. If I'm afraid to talk to someone, I have to go talk to that person, you know? I, Mike Sarraille: But it was cathartic in a way because when that shoot opened and we were drifting down, and it was beautiful. Um, but yeah, where is the solution? John F. Kennedy Jr. was just 38 years old when he died in a tragic plane crash on July 16, 1999 and not everyone believes that it was an accident. [19], Rzeznik believes writing is not just an inspirational act but that writing music is "ninety nine percent perspiration." Because there's people who wanna exploit you. [26], Rzeznik is a recovering alcoholic. I'm gonna teach you how to take care of yourself. Mike Sarraille: We, we, we love to, to put buzz words out there, but yet we don't follow them through behavior or action. John Rzeznik: John Rzeznik: Mike Sarraille: I think this is something that I, I'm just gonna say that I think, like I have, I've been to a few therapists in my life and over the past few years, you know, you have to tell your story to the therapist. Um, you know, but one of the, one of the most amazing, brilliant things about being that young and, and being, being caught up in, in, in this pretty crazy situation is that, that I was, I was able to go, Okay, this is bad and this sucks and my heart is broken, but I have to keep going. Than than later, earlier. This ma major reinvention of the whole place. Until they don't. But they just came home. John Rzeznik: Mike Sarraille: The famous rock star is known as a very charismatic and handsome person, and he has a lot of fans. Uh, you know what I mean, man. " I'm Still Here (Jim's Theme) ". Covering 1950's, 1960's, 1970's, 1980's music till now. Gi gimme examples there of what you consider Amongs, the three. And yes, when we use that word, it's not cultural, uh, appropriation. And like, you know, before I could get it together, it was really, it was really difficult. Well, it was, I mean, it was really kind of the only thing I was good at, you know, um, compared to, you know, I, you know, I I wasn't really the academic type I guess at that point, you know, I mean, I, I was more interested in, you know, meeting girls and playing music and that, and college was kind of getting in the way of all that. He performed three touch-and-go landings before heading out over the Pacific Ocean. It's, it's an indulgence that can become very addictive, you know? You know? Rzeznik celebrates his Polish heritage during one of the Goos' most well-known shows: Fourth of July 2004 in Niagara Square. That hasnt changed about me, but if you mention, Gee, wouldnt it be nice if everyone could go and see a doctor? suddenly youre branded a socialist whos ruining the country. We do not accept. And I'm say, this dude guy for his age, he looks freaking good. I highly recommend it to anybody. John Rzeznik: This attracted the attention of a larger record label, Metal Blade, who released their next few albums. I found these candles burning and this weird little altar and a box of strange objects. But we could come together, put our needs aside for the good of the group, identify, Hey, what's the objective we need to achieve this week or this day? But at least it was something that, that helped them hang on. And you're, you know, where, where you were, you brought up an interesting point. So, you know, there, you know, and to, and the thing is, when, when you're in a vulnerable position, there's no shortage of people who are gonna try to take advantage of that. And that, that's, that's what growing up in a place like Buffalo is like, you take care of your family no matter what, you know? And, and you know, it's, it's a bit of trauma, you know, in a way. Rzeznik noted in a 2003 interview that "No matter what guitar I have, it seems that anything with strings makes music to my ears. Mike Sarraille: You gotta do what's best for the song anyway. That's the only thing I can do. You know, so not really, but, you know, he wanted, you know, you know, he wanted to, you know, punch my head in. John Joseph Theodore Rzeznik ( born December 5, 1965), also known as Johnny Rzeznik, is an American guitarist, vocalist, songwriter, and producer. But what, I mean, we've all heard the, the quote from medicine, Hey, I didn't, uh, discover the, uh, light bulb. And my point where I'm going with that is just make sure that your tribe is putting good into the world. And, um, you gotta be careful of it. Um, cuz I'll tell you, I loved my men and women a lot more than I hated the enemy on, on the other side of the battlefield. Was that innate or was it because you worked your freaking ass off? Um, cuz it it sounds like, like a, like a tonic, like it sounds like, Yeah, we all it sounds like a very loving kick in the ass . John Rzeznik: And again, that's my opinion of regardless if you have mental health issues, and first off, lemme tell you that somebody said it, great mental health issues does not mean mental weakness. data and in accordance with the. That was a generation when you look at it. Mike Sarraille: I think everyone in our country is just fatigued and slightly shocked, Rzeznik laughs wearily. messages about ILikeYourOldStuff based on my information, Now they were trying to hide me away from the temptations, sober companions, a sober tour manager, you know, blah, blah, blah, all this nonsense, you know, and I, some people need that. Rzeznik grew up in Buffalo, N.Y., with a father who was an abusive alcoholic and a mother who was, as he once told the Buffalo News, a "German disciplinarian." He had a tough childhood, but. They say, Hey, I, I've suffered this and I'm a victim. I was a shy young man. And I've got this, so this is how I, I painted when people ask. And yeah, when it was like, you know, all my friend's dads, they were like, you know, Korea, Vietnam, those kind of things. John Rzeznik has a new appreciation for the Goo Goo Dolls' success Between two postponements and two injuries, Rzeznik found himself with plenty of time to reflect on his full-time job as a. Um mm-hmm. It's like we all have potential. That that must have been another innate skill you have. And then, but I had to, I got really drunk, got on an airplane, came back to the States, and I was like, That's it, I'm done flying. Because it comes from yourself. And then, um, and then I was terrified of swimming. No, I, I was actually, I was thinking of that when you, when, and you said that that's incredible. Um, you know, I think you do need to open up and you need to be help, but you, but I, I think that the problem, because like, I went to therapy for like, and I still go to therapy in little blocks of time. And it's like, I love that man. Thanks for joining us on another episode of the Men's Journal Everyday Warrior podcast. It doesn't mean you need to, like ev it's like your family. I'm not gonna be cool and important anymore. They're like, I've never had this and now I belong to this, this group, regardless if they're a criminal organization or, or, or, or nonprofit. John Rzeznik: I was like, Okay, this is not going to happen and I had to get lawyers involved., No, I didnt have to move but I did! Rzeznik laughs. And that, that's what I look for in a woman is someone who's, who's strong, compassionate, and can be a partner, you know? information, interests, activities, website visits and device You, you, it's, it's amazing. We were determined that we were gonna do something great, you know? On October 26, 1982, his mother died at the age of 51 from a sudden heart attack in the family's living room. Thats part of the deal though: I decided I was going to be a musician out in public and say things, so sometimes you have to deal with unfortunate circumstances. And they bought him a cow and that, and then he became a dairy farmer and his purpose was restored. [16] Rzeznik also cites Paul Westerberg as an "obvious influence" on his music. I don't think you're mutually exclusive in, in, in my opinion. And, and, um, and I hope that my daughter respects me. And I think that's where a lot of therapy goes wrong, because it's not, it's not solution oriented, you know? But you also bring up something that I think is the, and it's not a pandemic cuz it's not global, but I think within the United States, there's this epidemic of victimhood that, so you talk like people just want to talk for five years about their problems. Politicians would contact us to raise money for them, but I got to the point during the last election where I was just like, Nah, its not going to happen, because the entire system is broken on both sides. Awesome. [25] Rzeznik and his family reside in Westfield, New Jersey. ON STAGE: Goo Goo Dolls playing Riverworks his Sunday. Well, hopefully we can join you for one of your shows. Mm-hmm. And No, I'm not saying that I love my brother more than I love my sister. Being a bartender is the greatest job. That, that is so beautiful, man. [citation needed], For the next few years, the band toured and worked on new material. Yeah. In my opinion. So I, I want to go back cuz you know, rarely do people know about the history of high profile musicians such as yourself, uh, you know, sports stars, but, uh, one you were born in, uh, Buffalo, New York, which I don't know if you're a Buffalo Bills fan, but man, uh, you guys just can't seem to, uh, to pull it out, dude. It's like, I wanna know, it's like, why am I, why am I sad all the time? Cheers. Some 21 years since Iris topped the Australian singles chart and parent album Dizzy Up The Girl went platinum, the Goo Goo Dolls new album Miracle Pill is an expertly executed wolf in sheeps clothing. But that doesn't mean you go and throw yourself into the deep end of the pool, like what you just said. At the 2004 Fashion Rocks! John Rzeznik: We knew why we existed. Isn't. I think that's my biggest fear in life is rejection. He said, Try, try to follow your word. Mike Sarraille: There's a lot we can learn from each other that, that, you know, I'm, I, you know, I. Mike Sarraille: Um, and, and my dad, my dad, my, it's really kind of, my dad was older. You start to recognize faces in the crowd and, and they become an extension of your tribe. That's all. He has created ten studio albums with the band, which earned him lots of public notice and acclaim. So I'd better do it right.". That, that's insane. Um, but with the right help, they can absolutely turn that into, uh, to growth. They suffered 'multiple traumatic injuries'. Know. That was rough In the nineties. I had to get a restraining order after someone broke into my house. concert in New York, Rzeznik performed a duet version of the song Iris with Canadian pop-punk singer Avril Lavigne. Yeah, yeah. That, that right there, interesting times are not always good times that I think you just named this podcast, man, that, uh, or this, this episode that that is so true. But, you know, interesting times are not always good times. Get up, get up, You get knocked down 10 times. Yeah. I will say that post-traumatic stress can lead to growth, though post traumatic growth. John Rzeznik: Cuz it's like, screw you. Im a bleeding-heart liberal and Ill always be pro-union because I grew up in a blue collar family and thats what we were. When, when, when, uh, when does the tour go till. That's easy, dude. Your, your older siblings are all girls your sisters? But I, and I just finally, I got to a point where I was just, I had to, for my own survival, go put the record out or drop me cuz I can't live like this anymore. [15], Most of the music Rzeznik listened to while growing up was influenced by his sisters, and consisted of classic rock such as The Rolling Stones and The Kinks. Even my grandfather who was third day of Normandy and he was the, in the black forest turning outta the battle of the bulge, never spoke about it. He looks amazing, and he's still drinks tequila. So how can I support you? Oh hell yeah. And I'm up there like six, seven times a year. John Rzeznik: 10,000 people like me. John Rzeznik: And there's times where I want to pack it in and just be like, I'm done. Behind the big choruses lurk communiques on prescription medication, the emptiness of the social media sphere and the vicious political climate.